The "Standard" Speed: The 28-Day Rule

Anthony McGrath • January 12, 2026

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In England and Wales, you must "give notice" at your local register office at least 28 clear days before your ceremony. Because you also need to have lived in your registration district for at least seven days before giving notice, the total timeline from "let’s do this" to "I do" is typically about 35 to 40 days.



Scotland follows a similar timeline. You must submit your Marriage Notice (M10) forms to the registrar at least 29 days before the wedding.

The "Emergency" Route: Reducing the Notice Period


If you cannot wait 28 days due to exceptional circumstances, you can apply for a waiver to reduce the notice period. This is granted by the Registrar General and is usually reserved for:


  1. Imminent Military Deployment: If one partner is being sent abroad on short notice.
  2. Serious Illness: If a partner or a close family member is seriously ill (but not necessarily terminal).
  3. Legal/Life Constraints: Other "compelling" reasons that the Registrar General deems valid.


There is a fee (currently around £66 per person) for the application, and it is not guaranteed. You will need to provide hard evidence, such as a letter from a commanding officer or a doctor.



The "Deathbed" Marriage: Registrar General’s Licence


In the most urgent and somber of circumstances—where one partner is terminally ill, not expected to recover, and cannot be moved to a registered venue—a marriage can take place almost instantly.

This is known as a marriage by Registrar General’s Licence. Under these rules, the 28-day notice period is waived entirely. A registrar can come to a home, hospital, or hospice, sometimes on the same day the application is made, provided a doctor certifies that the person is of sound mind but physically unable to travel.



The Religious Route: Special and Common Licences


If you are looking for a Church of England wedding, there are slightly different "fast-track" options:


  • Common Licence: This is the ecclesiastical equivalent of a "quick" civil marriage. It can be used if there isn't enough time to publish "banns" (the traditional three-week announcement in church). You usually need a genuine reason for the rush, such as a sudden job relocation or military posting.


  • Special Licence: Issued by the Faculty Office of the Archbishop of Canterbury, this allows a marriage to take place at any time or place (including a private home) in exceptional circumstances.



Tips for a "Short-Notice" Success


If you are planning a wedding in 5–8 weeks, follow these three rules to stay sane:


  1. Be Midweek-Minded: Everyone wants a Saturday. If you are willing to marry on a Tuesday morning, you’ll find that both venues and registrars have much more availability.
  2. Keep the Guest List Lean: The fewer people you have to coordinate, the faster you can move. Micro-weddings and "elopement packages" are the best friends of the spontaneous couple.
  3. Check Immigration Status: If one of you is not a British or Irish citizen (and doesn’t have settled status), the 28-day notice period can be extended to 70 days by the Home Office for investigation. If this applies to you, "quick" might still mean 10 weeks.



What You Need to Give Notice (Don't forget these!)

  • Valid Passports.
  • Proof of Address (Utility bills or bank statements from the last 3 months).
  • Decree Absolute/Final Order (If either of you has been married before).
  • Death Certificate (If either of you is a widow or widower).
Note for 2026: While the UK government has been consulting on modernizing marriage laws to allow "anywhere" weddings (like on a beach or in a garden) without a separate civil ceremony, the 28-day notice period remains the legal backbone of the process.


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